If you want to feel sexy and confident, start treating yourself with care, respect, and love.
Make your self-pleasure a priority and take care of your health. Look at yourself in the mirror the way you would want a lover to look at you. Connect with your body and be present with yourself. Touch yourself the way you would want a lover to touch you. Talk to yourself the way you would want a lover to talk to you. Choose to let go of any limiting belief systems around your body, sexuality, abilities, or anything else that is holding you back from being your sexy, confident self!
Here are some tips on how to treat yourself with love:
- Don't compare yourself to others.
- Allow yourself to make mistakes occasionally.
- Surround yourself with people who pull you up, not down.
- Feel your emotions, let them come up and acknowledge them.
- Dare to trust your own gut feeling and judgment
- Prioritize yourself without feeling guilty.
- Live in the present, practice presence in your own life
- See beauty and love in the smallest things
- Speak nicely to yourself and about yourself
- Be grateful for what you have.
“Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to give you flowers.”
