Your cervix, also referred to as the c-spot, is the portal to magical orgasms that for some feel like dissolving into light and for others like an endless wave of bliss. When you learn to truly surrender and awaken your senses throughout your body from your cervix to your crown chakra (the energetic point at the top of your head), the effects can be psychedelic. We believe this is because a chemical called DMT (dimethyltryptamine) is released from your pineal gland or another highly synthesized form of melatonin that creates a psychedelic effect. (The problem is that it is very difficult to measure, so there is basically no research in the area) If you haven’t felt your cervix, the first step is to find it and make a connection to it. The cervix feels different than the rest of your vagina. The tissue is firmer and shaped like a small donut. Not sure how to find your c-spot? See the guide here
The cervix is reached by deep penetration, and for some this area may be difficult to find depending on the anatomy of both the man and the woman.
Our glass rod , The Serpent, is great to use as it is easy to maneuver on your own due to its length. The whole point is to be able to completely relax.
The cervix responds best to slow, deep pressure or gentle pressure combined with gentle movement, after 20-60 minutes of arousal . Use circular motions around the cervix or stroke it. When you touch your cervix, you can also get information. Is it numb or painful and uncomfortable? Or can you feel pleasure or pleasure? These things matter. If your cervix is numb or painful, you need to spend time healing it through loving touch and through changing behaviors (like having clearer boundaries and asking for your needs to be met). It's a deep journey and there are many layers to it. When it comes to cervical orgasm, it's not something you can just "make happen." You can prepare yourself and you can learn to relax, work with your nervous system, and learn how to feel more pleasure. Then the rest is out of your hands. It's the ultimate surrender.
Letting go completely and relinquishing control is the ego's greatest enemy, but absolutely necessary in this process.
Yes, all women can have these orgasms. But take your time, and don't have orgasm as a goal. Whether you're exploring alone or with a partner, the key is to take your time and trust the process. If you've had a fight with your partner that's still lingering to this day, it will make the process difficult. The environment around you, and how you feel inside, play a role here. Total surrender requires a safe and good environment.
Cervical orgasms are very different from clitoral orgasms, which are more short-lived and peak in intensity. After a cervical orgasm, you can feel full of energy for days and weeks afterwards!
Exploring your cervix is as much a spiritual journey as it is a sexual journey.
