What is an erotic blueprint?
Consider it your sexual love language.
A one-word archetype that quickly explains what you like and don't like in the bedroom.
The concept was created by internationally renowned award-winning sexologist and best-selling author Jaiya, who deduced that there are five categories of erotic blueprints that describe human sexual nature.
The five erotic blueprints are energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter. You can learn what your erotic blueprint is when you take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz on Jaiya's website. Anyone can take this quiz to learn more about themselves, regardless of their sexuality.
Take the test here
Here comes a basic description of each erotic blueprint below.
#1 Energetic
People with this archetype hardly need touch to achieve orgasm. They are sensual and sense energies. With this erotic archetype, you are mostly aroused by teasing, anticipation and mood. You need a long time to build up and love vanilla sex, as long as the chemistry is there! Because that is the most important thing for you.
You prefer your partner to build up the foreplay slowly by telling and teasing you about what they're going to do to you later. If you go too fast here, you'll simply lose the desire!
You find it easier than most to tune into your chakras, and your partner's as well.
A potential downside is that you may be overly sensitive and therefore tune in to your partner if they are a little absent-minded. This can also completely shut down your arousal.
If you are an energetic blueprint, we recommend the Rose Quartz yoni wand as rose quartz is known to open the heart chakra.
#2 Sensual
With this type of erotic blueprint, you love when all your senses are ignited.
Maybe you get aroused by your partner licking food, scented candles, mood lighting, and lovely music in the background.
But most of all, you are thrilled by touch.
Maybe it's your partner's nails digging into your back, an ice cube on your chest, or feathers tickling your legs. Either way, you feel these feelings more deeply than others.
A common downside is that you tend to get stuck in your thoughts and are unable to focus on the sex. Also, if the feelings aren't quite right, this can really distract you.
If you are a sensual blueprint, we recommend the Green aventurine twist wand as the grooves give you waves of pleasure!
#3 Sexual
Do you only care about penetration and orgasms? Then you probably have a sexual blueprint! For you, sex is easy, fun, and relaxing.
You're probably easily aroused. If someone touches your genitals, shows you theirs, or is direct, you're ready! You just want sex!
The problem is that you may also be more prone to incompatibility with other archetypes.
Maybe you don't like long foreplay or erotic sex toys. More likely, you just want sex and orgasm without everything else around.
You are also more prone to bad moods if you don't experience orgasms. In a nutshell, you are easy to please, but easy to frustrate as well.
If you have a sexual blueprint, you may need to make extra effort to be mindful of your partner's pleasure.
If you are a sexual blue-blood, we recommend The Tentacle Squirt as it stimulates all your ergonic zones and has helped thousands of women squirt!
#4 Kinky
If you are interested in domination, submission, or pain for pleasure, you probably have the kinky archetype. Taboo itself is experienced as arousing.
With this type of sex, there is always a dominant and a submissive. You can like either one or both of these.
Many people are ashamed or guilty of this archetype. Some may not tell their partner even if they have been in love for years. They need a non-judgmental partner that they can truly trust before they can reveal themselves.
If you encourage your partner to take the erotic blueprint quiz created by Jaiya, it may turn out they were hiding this page from you all along.
Another downside to this archetype is not being turned on by regular "vanilla" sex. Or, even worse, only having one niche route to orgasm. This can lead to incompatibility with many partners.
If you have a kinky erotic bluebrint, we recommend the Black obsidan beaded curve , as it will wake up your yoni through both g-spot stimulation and anal pleasure!
#5 Shapeshifter
Jaiya calls this type of blueprint "the superhero," because shapeshifters get turned on by everything.
If you want a lot of surprise and variety in your sex life, this archetype is probably yours.
Because you get turned on by everything, variety is crucial to your sexual satisfaction.
But because many shapeshifters tend to feel selfish for wanting so much, they often want to focus only on their partner's pleasure.
One downside to this is that their own needs are not being met, so shapeshifters are among the most likely to get bored with their partner.
If you are a shapeshifter, we recommend the Clear quartz pleasure wand as it awakens your juicy erogenous zones!
How can your erotic blueprint improve your love life?
Your erotic blueprint translates your sexual desires into a language that is easy to understand.
A good understanding of it will teach you and your partner how to maximize your sexual satisfaction and theirs.
You will be able to appeal to each other's minds much better with this understanding. That's great because the mind is the most powerful sexual organ.
With a deeper understanding of your and your partner's sexuality, it will also be easy to predict new physical sex acts that they are likely to enjoy. Keeping things spicy in the bedroom will be easier than ever.
On top of that, knowledge of each other's archetype will help new couples learn how to get past sexual incompatibility.
Enjoying the best sex possible with your partner is not just about physical pleasure, it's also about experiencing increased intimacy, connection, and greater satisfaction in your life.
Illustration: Tina Maria Elena
