Did you know that orgasm is something that can be learned? That there is an orgasmic formula?
We live in a world where we are constantly bombarded with impressions. SoMe, TV and computers can make us overstimulated, and porn and vibrators can make us less sensitive. If we want a deeper form of pleasure and presence, a tip is to reduce stimulation and increase sensitivity. Becoming multi-orgasmic is a skill that can be learned!
Becoming multi-orgasmic is like coming home to yourself, and your innate erotic nature and innocence. Peeling away all programming, and learning to play your own instrument and body.
Solo sex and self-pleasure is your classroom where you can practice and explore at your own pace, and without having to think about satisfying a partner.
The more you practice, the stronger the connection between your brain and vagina becomes. This means that it will be easier to come every time you practice. It's like learning to salsa. At first it may feel a little awkward, but eventually it will become automatic! It's the same with orgasm.
Here are 6 great tips for better orgasms:
1) Breathe
Breathe deeply into your stomach, and just before orgasm try not to hold your breath. This will make the orgasm deeper.
2) Movement
Sexual energy moves in waves. Lying stiff as a stick makes it difficult for the energy to move through the body, and this can prevent orgasm.
3) Sound
Our throat is directly connected to our pelvic floor. When you use sound, you allow the energy to flow, while the sound stimulates the vagus nerve and calms us.
4) Presence.
One of the biggest orgasm inhibitors is that we are in our heads and not our bodies. Practice presence, and focus on the pleasure and not the goal.
5) Visualize
If you're feeling a little numb, use visualization! It's amazing how much our minds have to say about pleasure. Imagine glowing lava in your vagina, or fantasize about something that makes your vagina awaken.
6) Relax
The more you relax, the deeper your orgasm will be. Surrender yourself completely to the experience.
Indulge your senses, take your time, and have fun along the way!
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