In ancient cultures, squirting was considered a divine gift given to a woman's partner.
The Kamasutra (written in 200–400 AD) speaks of “female semen” that “squirts continuously” while a 4th-century Taoist text, “Secret Instructions Concerning the Jade Chamber,” distinguishes between “wet vagina” and “fluid from the vagina.”
Squirting, or as it is also called - female ejaculation, involves the release of fluid either right before, during or after orgasm. The fluid can squirt out, come as a jet or simply ooze out.
Studies have shown that most of the fluid comes from the bladder, but it may also appear that some of the contents of the squirt come from some glands located a short distance inside the vagina. These glands are said to be located in the area around the urethra, close to the area described as the G-spot.
It could be a drip or a splash of water, depending on the person, the day, and many other factors. Splashing - or not at all - both are perfectly normal.
Tips on how to squirt
- Using a sex toy specifically designed to stimulate the g-spot
- Combines clitoris and g-spot stimulation
- Use sufficient lubricant
- Stay relaxed, listen to your body, and don't push yourself.
- Strengthen your vaginal muscles with a yoni egg or pelvic floor exercises
- Go to the toilet beforehand
- Try warming up with your favorite foreplay, music, a massage, or a bath.
- Feel free to use a squirt blanket so you don't have to worry about the mattress.
Moon blood waterproof squirt blanket can be found here
Some women only squirt when the G-spot is stimulated, for others it is the opposite and happens when the vagina is not penetrated.
Some people may feel like they are peeing on themselves before they squirt, the trick is to relax and not stop even if you get that feeling.
Try to relax and enjoy the whole process, and don't let it be the goal itself.
Let go of all expectations. Squirting can happen on the first try or it can take years before it happens.
